I've often said and thought in my life that every straight man needs a little 5 inch woman, standing on his shoulder ready to tap the back of his head with a "Not like that you idiot!"
This isn't to say a lot of men out there don't have a lot of good ideas but let's face it. Each and every one has had a moment of frustration, anger, confusion about the opposite sex. There are books and books about relationships of all kinds, how to guides and advice calenders galore, but honestly sometimes the easiest way to understand the fairer sex is to ask one the whys and wherefores.